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Getting Back on Track

by Ron Potter May 16, 2010
Image Source: Ricardo Bernardo, Creative Commons

Image Source: Ricardo Bernardo, Creative Commons

I know, I know, I haven’t posted a blog in forever. While that issue has been nagging at me for weeks it took the gentle reminder of a close friend that I had neglected this duty (thanks Armin).

Several things strike me about this situation:
1) I actually needed the reminder from a friend to respond to the nagging
2) For me, blogging is a difficult task that requires discipline to accomplish
3) I’m reminded almost every day from clients that time management is an issue
4) Even if doing something is enjoyable, you may not be good at it

Many years ago I was attending a professional golf tournament. At the time Tom Watson was at the peak of his career (which is interesting to say when he recently came within a stroke of winning the British Open (THE Open) even though he’s in his sixties). But, at that moment in time there was probably no one in the world who knew more about the game of golf and in particular his ability to play the game. However, as I watched Tom play that day, he began to have problems with his drive on the last several holes. He developed a draw which turned into a nasty hook. After his round I watched as he gathered his coach and headed for the practice range. Although I was out of hearing range, you could tell by the body language what was going on between Tom and his coach. Tom was animated and angry while his coach was trying to both listen and calm Tom down at the same time. Finally the coach asked Tom to hit a few balls while he watched. Tom’s first attempt delivered a severe hook that nearly missed the driving range on the left. Tom immediately reacted with animation and anger. Once again the coach tried to calm him down and asked him to make minor change in his stance. Tom acquiesced and addressed another ball. This time while the ball still faded to the left, it did not follow the path of the severe hook. Tom nodded and hit a few more balls which all followed the same path. The coach then suggested another slight change to Tom’s grip. The next shot was magnificent. The ball boomed off the club face, started out low and true and slowly climbed into the sky almost reaching the limits of sight. Tom simply turned and smiled at his coach. For the next half hour Tom launched ball after ball true and straight down the driving range.
Even the best in the world sometimes need that outside observer to slightly adjust their already plentiful skills to keep them tuned up and on the right path.

Do you have that trusted confident that will give you the feedback to keep your shots flying true and straight? We all need them.

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Story Telling & Trust

by Ron Potter September 18, 2009
Image Source: Sarah Browning, Creative Commons

Image Source: Sarah Browning, Creative Commons

Building trust is an essential part of leadership, but people aren’t likely to trust you if they feel they don’t know you at all. That was the problem with a manager I was asked to help.

Her biggest issue is that she didn’t let people in. She was a leader – people reported to her – but her people didn’t feel like they understood who she was. She seemed very distant and aloof.

And it was intentional. When I spoke with her about it, she said:

“I don’t want to have people from work in my personal life. I don’t want them knowing what I do, or what sort of person I am.”

Her problem wasn’t arrogance or disdain. She felt vulnerable. She was trying to protect herself.

My challenge was to show her there was a way to connect with her people that didn’t involve the sort of intimacy she feared. I spent our first-day session together modeling how to do this. When we got to the end of the session, I asked, “How well do you think you know me now?”

She replied, “I know a phenomenal amount about you.”

“Really?” I said. “How is that?”

“Every time I asked you a question, you told me a story that related to that topic.”

I told her I did that deliberately because people remember stories, and they also connect with the person telling the story. She was feeling like she knew me almost intimately after just one day, and all because I told her six to eight stories as we were talking.

“You can do the same thing,” I said. “You don’t have to bare your soul with people. You just need to start telling stories about the things you’ve done and how you’ve learned what you know.”

It was a very powerful lesson for her. She walked out of the session thinking, “I can do that. I can tell stories.” I think it made a huge difference in her leadership ability.

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Knowing the Answer Can Be Very Costly – Part II

by Ron Potter August 4, 2009
Image Source: Christian Bucad, Creative Commons

Image Source: Christian Bucad, Creative Commons

Continuing the discussion – click here for Knowing the Answer Can Be Very Costly Part 1.

If it’s costly for a manger to stop listening because he “knows” the answer, imagine the risk involved when this same attitude pervades a company’s culture. I can give you two examples of this problem – one taken from my own experience and one you’re all familiar with.

A few years ago, I worked closely with a high-technology company with clients around the world. The leadership team understood it was vital to serve their customers and they devised their own customer service rating system.

Every month, the CEO and the leadership team received a report that showed the customer service scores for each of their clients. They were proud of the fact that their biggest client consistently received the highest scores in their system.

But one day, I was called into an emergency meeting and told that this No. 1 customer had terminated its contract. The leadership team and the CEO were stunned. They were sitting around the table saying, “How could they have fired us? We always made sure they received the highest customer service rating of any client!”

The answer back from the customer was, “You didn’t listen to what we were asking of you.” The customer service ratings measured those factors my client deemed important, but it overlooked other factors the customer valued. The team that collected the ratings was so enamored with their “answer” that when the customer was asking for something different, they didn’t hear it.

“The outcomes are never in doubt”

In the aftermath of General Motors’ bankruptcy, a lot of the blame rests with GM’s failure to listen to its customers or employees. Rob Kleinbaum, who spent 24 years with the company as an employee and a consultant, described meetings at GM as “exercises in procrastination, rubber stamping, or idea killing, without anything that would pass for genuine debate or dialogue.” Those are classic symptoms of a leadership culture that “knows” the answer.

The same problem had been going on for a long time. Twenty-one years ago, one of GM’s top executives, Elmer Johnson, wrote a cautionary memo to the executive committee. Johnson said that the company’s “most serious problems pertain to organization and culture.” Old assumptions about the stability of the auto market and the advantage of massive scale were no longer valid, but the entrenched culture could not be challenged.

Johnson complained that “the meetings of our many committees and policy groups have become little more than time-consuming formalities. The outcomes are almost never in doubt. The important decisions have almost always been reached behind the scenes before the time of the meeting. Accordingly, there is a dearth of discussion and almost never anything amounting to lively discussion. … Our culture discourages open, frank debate among GM executives in the pursuit of problem resolution. …. As one case in point, our poor quality and reliability in recent years was surely attributable in large part to GM’s historic resistance to creating an environment in which problem identification and correction is consistently applauded and encouraged by management.”

Companies and leaders who know the answer don’t tend to listen well, so they turn a deaf ear to problems that may eventually overwhelm them. Not listening to others is a form of pride and arrogance. The antidote is humility.

Being a humble leader doesn’t mean you have to be weak or self-effacing. It means you have to be grounded in the truth, and smart enough to realize that the truth needs to be discovered, not decreed.

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BlogLeadership

Knowing the Answer Can Be Very Costly – Part I

by Ron Potter July 17, 2009
Image Source: Michael Caven, Creative Commons

Image Source: Michael Caven, Creative Commons

Sometime, in my consulting practice, a company will ask me to fix a flaw that’s preventing a leader from succeeding. One example was a young manager, who was very smart but lacking in humility. His company liked him a lot and saw his potential to do very well, if it weren’t for his arrogance. He stumbled over it constantly in team meetings.

I talked with him about how to listen better and deliberate more effectively. In response he asked a very revealing question: “What am I supposed to do when I already know the answer?”

This particular manager worked in a technical unit, and highly technical people can often feel this way – that they already know the answer although I see it happen in every function and in particular with those who consider themselves the topical “expert.” Consequently, they don’t listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to respond and rebut. Even if the answer they “know” is correct, which happens occasionally, their lack of humility and listening abilities alienates the rest of the team.

More often, poor listeners don’t have the answer. If you don’t listen well, you can’t understand the culture of the organization you’re serving or the needs of your customers. That’s why we often see technical people offering technical solutions that those of us who aren’t technical can’t figure out – and then they get frustrated with us because we’re “idiots” (think Microsoft Vista).

One of the formulas I use when consulting is:

Effectiveness of decision = Quality of decision X Acceptance of decision

It doesn’t matter if your answer is technically correct or even elegant. If nobody understands, accepts and gets behind it, it’s not a good answer.

My reply to the manager’s question was that the answer lies in the truth, and you need to discover the truth through the team process. You need to accept the fact that there might be a different answer that’s just as viable. It may not be the most technically precise answer, but it’s still a much better answer because other people will understand it and accept it.

You can come in with a strong opinion – in fact, we want you to do that – but you also need a collaborative attitude. You need to be thinking, “With my strong opinion and other strong opinions, we’ll discover the answer through good deliberation.” That’s the humble and prudent approach, and it’s much more effective than thinking you already have the answer.

In Part 2, I’ll discuss what happens when the entire company already “knows” the answer.

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Busily Bored

by Ron Potter June 7, 2009
Image Source: Carol Schaffer, Creative Commons

Image Source: Carol Schaffer, Creative Commons

Are you bored? I know that if I were to ask any of my clients (or even myself) that question the answer would certainly be, “Are you kidding? I’ve never been busier in my life!”

But, the opposite of bored is not busy, the opposite of bored is purposeful and focused. We can be very busy but without purpose and focus. That’s boring.

We mentioned the seven deadly sins a few blogs ago. Isn’t it interesting that one of the seven deadly sins is sloth. What’s sloth? Most of us think of it as lazy. It’s actually a close match to the definition of bored. Being bored (busy or otherwise) is being slothful. It’s a sin. It does you and no one else any good.

Years ago when I was in the engineering/construction business, there was a person on one of our job sites who would head for the equipment shed every morning, pick up a bucket and a mop and head off in a particular direction with a very purposeful stride. And then an hour or so later, we would see him heading in another direction, bucket in hand, mop over his shoulder with that same purposeful stride. However, after a few days of observation we began to understand that he wasn’t heading any place in particular. He had just figured out a cleaver way of avoiding any work other than walking around. We fired him. He was being slothful.

Most bored activity is not that visible. People start early with a steady pace and go home at night having been active all day. Unfortunately, they are also going home bored. It’s the job of leadership to help people connect their daily activity with the overall purpose and focus of the company (division or function). One of the signs of a great corporate culture is that people understand the connection between their personal goals and objectives with the vision, mission and strategic direction of their work group.

Have you provided purpose and focus for each individual on the team you’re leading?
Have you figured out your own purpose and focus?
Or are you just busily bored?

Thanks to Pastor Bob Lynn for his thoughts and teachings on the concept of Boredom.

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Humility vs Hubris

by Ron Potter May 19, 2009
Image Source: Dennis Jarvis, Creative Commons

Image Source: Dennis Jarvis, Creative Commons

When I met with Wayne Hastings for the first time to discuss the writing of our book, Trust Me: developing a leadership style people will follow, I carried with me a research paper I had been reading that eventually became Jim Collins’ book, Good to Great. In his book Jim described what he termed a “Level 5” leadership style that was present every time a company went from being a good company to being a great company. The two pillars of that style were humility and a strong will to endure and succeed. Our book outlined 8 leadership principles that began with humility and ended with endurance, the same characteristics.

Jim is now publishing a new book titled How The Mighty Fall: And Why Some Companies Never Give In where he looks at the signs that we can detect that indicate a company may be on it’s way down from great to good (or worse).

What’s the number one sign? Hubris!

Hubris (/hju:bris/)

Excessive pride or self-confidence; arrogance
Overbearing pride or presumption; arrogance

Wikipedia says:

“It was also considered the greatest sin of the ancient Greek world because it was not only proof of excessive pride, but also resulted in violent acts by or to those involved.”

Humility: the first principle in great leadership
Hubris: the first step of the fall from glory

Are you a great listener?
Do you accept the brutal reality of your situation?
Do you have great faith in people?
Do you see it as your job to help everybody perform at their best or be in a place where they can be successful?
Or, do you believe you’re successful because you (and your team) have figured out the right way to do things. You’re smart. You know what you’re doing. Hubris?


The links in the post above are “affiliate links.” This means if you click on the link and purchase the item, I will receive an affiliate commission. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will add value to my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

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BlogLeadership

Seven Deadly Sins

by Ron Potter May 14, 2009

PrudenceMost of us know about the seven deadly sins:

Lust
Gluttony
Greed
Sloth
Wrath
Envy
Pride

And I must admit that while I’m not guilty of all of the sins all of the time, I have been guilty of all of the sins some of the time. But, are you familiar with the four Cardinal Virtues?

Prudence
Justice
Restraint
Courage

I’ve been spending some time looking at the four and in particular the first of the virtues, Prudence. One of the intriguing definitions of Prudence is:

“The perfected ability to make right decisions.”

What better descriptor of corporate leadership could be found? The perfected ability to make right decisions!
As I began to explore the concept for prudence further, it presented itself as a process. Prudence breaks down into the functions of:

Deliberate
Decide
Do

These are my words, not the words of the great scholars that describe the process, but what a great process to reach right decisions.

Give it good deliberation
Use a great and well defined decision making process
Go out and execute

Since 2000, one of the “deadly sins” that I’ve seen become more and more prevalent in corporate cultures is the attitude of quick deciding instead of quick learning leading to good decisions. With a quick deciding attitude, teams will ignore, steam roll, belittle or dismiss any behavior that appears to be or feels like it is slowing down the deciding process. In other words, a quick deciding mentality approach is anti-deliberation. It just doesn’t lead to prudent or wise decisions.
What we don’t have time for in our corporations today is non-prudent decisions. We must regain the technique of good deliberation to make great decisions quickly.
Let me know what you think. What is preventing our corporate leadership teams from spending the right amount of time deliberating so that we can then make good decisions? What are the roadblocks?

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Humility is Still Number One

by Ron Potter May 2, 2009

A back issue of BusinessWeek (May 11, 2009) reviews a book by soon-to-be Regulatory czar Cass Sunstein titled, Going to Extremes: How Like Minds Unite and Divide. BusinessWeek says:

“What jumps out from the book is Sunstein’s mistrust of human judgment in everything from politics to business, especially when people band together.”

They go on to say:

“There’s a whiff of elitism in Sunstein’s apparent call for enlightened experts (like himself) to gently correct the cockeyed masses.”

However, they say:

“Sunstein also believes wrongheaded views can be kept in check. Part of the answer is putting people with humility, curiosity, and openness in power.”

I don’t have any faith in the elitism view that a few very smart people with what Sunstein calls “Liberal paternalism” are the answer to anything. I meet too many smart, hardworking, dedicated people every day who go to work with great values and the intent to make things better. But, isn’t it interesting that even the “Liberal Parent” says I wouldn’t have to step in and “fix” things if people would simply put leaders in place who have humility as their number one trait.

Jim Collins in his book Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap…And Others Don’t identifies the number one trait of great leaders as humility.

In my book, Trust Me: Developing a Leadership Style People Will Follow, we identify the number one trait of great leaders as humility. None of the other traits work without it.

Check your ego at the door every morning. It will make you a better leader.


The links in the post above are “affiliate links.” This means if you click on the link and purchase the item, I will receive an affiliate commission. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will add value to my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

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